What is Cat?

A quick bootstrap for a human to understand a cat

Why Cats Act Like They Don't Care (But Absolutely Do)

Cat Slow Blink

Cat Waiting

Cat Observing

Cats express affection sideways, not directly.

Why Cats Are Subtle:

No Over-Display

In the wild, showing need is dangerous. Cats evolved to bond quietly.

Subtle Signals

  • Slow blinks = trust
  • Sitting near (not on) you = companionship
  • Following you from room to room = loyalty
  • Exposing belly without asking for touch = extreme trust

Attachment Style

Cats form secure attachments similar to dogs and children—but they don’t perform affection on command.


If a cat ignores you but:

  • checks where you are,
  • sleeps nearby,
  • greets you when you return,

that cat cares deeply.


Cat logic:

“I do not need to prove affection. You are already inside my territory.”